“Working with Dr Jessica Higgins was such a valuable experience for my partner and I. We were at a crossroads in our relationship and had difficulty “seeing” each other’s pain when having conflict. Dr Jesscia was able to help soften both of us quite quickly so we could turn toward each other with compassion and new insights about how the other’s defenses were just a reaction from learned behaviors to protect from further hurt. We both learned that we wanted the same thing… heartfelt connection and more ease with each other. Although we needed to create more space between us due to certain life circumstances, we still are in relationship with each other and now have much more peace between us by actively using helpful tools we learned from Dr Jessica in our communication. I have learned so much about myself and feel confident that I can face hard conversations without wanting to just give up by regulating my own emotions and staying present and calmly stating my needs and wants. Truly life changing!”