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ERP 249: How to Develop Beyond Distorted and Collapsed Ways of Being in your Sexual Energy An Interview with Michael McPherson

In today’s episode, I’m joined by Michael McPherson as we chat about how to develop sexual energy and sexual intimacy beyond the typical immature and limited notions we live within.

Michael talked about how common it is for people to grow up in environments where sex and conversations about sex are taboo. He addressed how much shame people typically feel around sex and their sexual energy, as well as how misinformed people are based on the distorted images they get from various forms of media. 

Michael’s mission is to help people expand their understanding about sexual energy and sexual intimacy as well as increasing their comfortability in talking about their sexuality.

Michael talked about his healing journey with the use of plant medicine, Ayahuasca ceremony, and the love and connection with his beloved. He shares some of his practices and principles with us that have contributed to his integration and transformation. 

Listen in to find out how sexual energy can be used for activities other than sex, why our sexuality is mixed in with all our life experiences, how men can hide behind their sexuality, and how he took responsibility for his past actions and somatically healed.

(Please listen to the podcast episode or read the transcript to hear explanations, stories, and examples.)


Bio: 

Michael McPherson is the author of Everything You Never Learned About Sex: Take Back Your Masculine Power & Use Your Sex Energy For Good, co-founder of KAKAO Ceremonial Drinking Chocolate, a non-profit devoted to saving native stains of cacao and making ceremonial-grade cacao available to the Western world, and co-founder of KAPU, a community app for light workers to share their heart-centered gifts, services, and wisdom in a safe and sacred space.

In this episode, Michael and Dr. Jessica Higgins discuss: 

  • How pornography impacts our ideas about sex and can warp our perspective on sexual intimacy
  • Why men can get away with hiding behind their sexuality in society
  • How males cover their emotional wounds and hurt with sex
  • Infatuation and the thrill of the chase is a large percent of our relational experience
  • How plant medicine and ceremonies can support healing from emotional turmoil and pain
  • The difference between sex energy and sexuality
  • How sexual energy is amplified in couplehood and how to work with intention setting together
  • How to use sexual energy to open your heart
  • The process by which we can start to identify sexual energy in our body
  • How to deepen your own intimacy with your beloved through your individual practice

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ERP 249: How to Develop Beyond Distorted and Collapsed Ways of Being in Your Sexual Energy, an Interview with Michael McPherson

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