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Create Lasting Connection, Intimacy, and Joy in Your Relationship

Create Lasting Connection, Intimacy, and Joy in Your Relationship

Are you and your partner caught in cycles of misunderstanding, frustration, or emotional distance?

Does it feel like no matter how hard you try, you end up facing the same painful dynamics over and over? It can be exhausting, leaving you discouraged and drained.

Or maybe you’ve felt the heartbreak of a relationship unraveling, and you’re ready to break free from those destructive patterns.

You want more connection, intimacy, and joy—and you’re willing to make the changes to get there.

You excel in many areas of life, but when it comes to your relationship, it can feel like you’re always one step behind. You know there’s potential for more, but something keeps getting in the way.

Are you ready to unlock the relationship success you know is possible?

Introducing

Evolve In Love

Created by Dr. Jessica Higgins—psychologist, relationship coach, and host of the Empowered Relationship Podcast—this transformative program is for couples and individuals committed to real change. Evolve In Love offers you a proven path to a deeper, more fulfilling connection with your partner, starting with meaningful change from within.

What evolve in love can do for you

Break free from the patterns holding you back. This program helps you eliminate:

  • Reactivity, insecurities, and fears that disrupt communication and connection.

  • Communication breakdowns that leave you feeling misunderstood, isolated, or like you’re living in two different worlds.

  • Eroded trust and lingering resentments that make emotional safety feel out of reach.

  • Repetitive, negative cycles that keep you stuck, unsure how to move forward.

  • Stress and exhaustion from unresolved conflicts that drain your energy and well-being.

  • Moments of hopelessness when it feels like disconnection and heartbreak are overwhelming, but deep down, you don’t want to give up

Evolve in love focuses on building

  • Emotional maturity and intelligence: Learn to manage your reactions and address vulnerabilities, creating a foundation of emotional safety, intimacy, and trust.

  • Effective, healthy communication: Speak and listen in ways that promote mutual respect and understanding, with a focus on presence and empathy.

  • Repair and resolution: Discover how to de-escalate conflicts, repair trust, and return to a place of connection—where outcomes work for both of you.

  • Trust and connection: Feel secure in turning to each other for support, comfort, and reassurance, knowing you’re stronger together.

  • Emotional and sexual intimacy: Experience a renewed sense of joy, passion, and vitality as you deepen your connection.

  • Confidence and security: Feel optimistic about the future of your relationship, knowing you have the skills to navigate challenges together.

How the program works

MONTHLY MASTERCLASSES

1.75 hours | 2nd Thursday of the month at 3 pm ET / 12 pm PT

Over nine months, each session will focus on a core aspect of relationship growth. Expect a blend of teaching, demonstrations, experiential exercises, and Q&A to deepen your understanding and skills. While you can cancel anytime, we recommend a three-month commitment to truly experience the transformation.

WEEKLY SUPPORT VIDEOS

Stay connected between classes. Submit your questions ahead of time, and receive thoughtful video responses from Dr. Jessica Higgins to help you apply the skills to your everyday life.

Learn new skills and techniques that enhance your capacity to regulate your emotions, communicate your needs and navigate challenges with grace. The result? Deeper connection, intimacy and fulfillment.

DOWNLOADABLE RESOURCES

You’ll have access to a range of materials designed to support your practice:

  • Workbooks: Practical exercises, key principles, and actionable steps.

  • Mindfulness Audios: Guided meditations to enhance emotional regulation and connection.

  • Demonstration Videos: Real-life examples of effective communication and conflict resolution.

Between what is said and not meant, and what is meant and not said, most of love is lost

– KHALIL GIBRAN

WHY EVOLVE IN LOVE?

This is not just another relationship program—it’s a hands-on, experiential coaching experience that equips you with the tools to shift your relationship dynamic. You’ll go beyond insights to develop real, embodied skills you can rely on during escalated or emotionally charged moments. As you practice and grow, you’ll see dramatic improvements in how you and your partner relate to each other, resulting in deeper connection, self-esteem, and confidence.

Key Skills You’ll Develop:

  • Emotional Regulation & Maturity: Manage triggers and calm your nervous system, supporting yourself and your partner through challenges.

  • Communication Mastery: Speak your truth clearly and respectfully, while truly listening to your partner.

  • Repair & Resolution: Resolve conflicts quickly, restoring connection and intimacy.

  • Building Emotional Safety: Cultivate a supportive, nurturing space where both partners feel heard and valued.

  • Deepening Intimacy: Strengthen both emotional and physical bonds, reigniting passion and connection.

Join Evolve In Love Today!

Your relationship deserves the opportunity to thrive. Take the first step toward transformation and see the difference it makes when you invest in lasting change.

Program Details:

  • Duration: Ongoing over nine months

  • 3-Month Recommended Package: Commit to three months to start your journey of growth

  • Master Classes: 2nd Thursday of each month (3 pm ET / 12 pm PT)

  • Cancel Anytime: No long-term commitment required

  • Investment: $297 a month

Exclusive Bonuses:

  • Special Coaching Feature: Apply to receive personalized coaching from Dr. Jessica Higgins during live group – bonus sessions.

  • Community Connection: Engage with fellow participants, share experiences, and learn together.

  • Fun Challenges: Practical activities to help you integrate your new skills.

WHAT PEOPLE ARE SAYING

L.W.
"I began sessions with Dr Jessica Higgins shortly after a fairly traumatic and unexpected breakup of a 38 ...
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L.W.
"I began sessions with Dr Jessica Higgins shortly after a fairly traumatic and unexpected breakup of a 38 year marriage. She was wonderfully compassionate, assisting me as I unraveled what had happened, and worked out how to move forward in a positive and practical way. She was instrumental in my healing process. She has a lot of relationship knowledge and brought this expertise to my sessions. I would highly recommend her as not only an insightful therapist, but also as a truly genuine person."
L.W.
L.W.
B.L.
"I'm so grateful to have met and worked with Jessica. She is an excellent coach. I found her to be ...
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B.L.
"I'm so grateful to have met and worked with Jessica. She is an excellent coach. I found her to be one of the most warm, empathetic, and knowledgeable people of all the coaches and psychotherapists I've worked with over the years. Jessica holds space, listens deeply, and is extremely compassionate. Simultaneously, she provided me with the tools and encouragement I needed to stretch and grow in ways that had a very positive impact on my life. Anyone would be fortunate to work with Jessica!"
B.L.
B.L.
Frances
“Working with Dr. Higgins was the the best investment we have ever made for our family. In addition...
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F
“Working with Dr. Higgins was the the best investment we have ever made for our family. In addition to husband and wife we are also business partners. Dr. Higgins helped up level our relationship and shift dynamics that were unconsciously created. Working directly with Dr. Higgins gave us the skills that have grown us into elite teammates both personally and professionally."
Frances
F
E.S.
“My relationship has completely changed through working with Jessica. She was equally attentive and took...
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E.S.
“My relationship has completely changed through working with Jessica. She was equally attentive and took the time to hear both myself and my partners history and point of view. After thoroughly getting to know us she was able to get down to the core of our actual needs and desires and gave us the tools to do this outside of our sessions as well to create a safe and understanding dynamic. I’m so grateful for Jessica’s patience and guidance.”
E.S.
E.S.
K.C.
“The Dalai Lama said, “Just as ripples spread out when a single pebble is dropped into water, the...
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K.C.
“The Dalai Lama said, “Just as ripples spread out when a single pebble is dropped into water, the actions of individuals can have far-reaching effects.” Dr. Jessica Higgins has been that proverbial pebble for my husband and me in our relationship. She enabled a healing process where not only were tools given to reopen lines of communication but inroads were made towards understanding one another. Once the huge obstacles were hurdled relationally, she gave us a framework for first, taking personal responsibility by recognizing triggers within ourselves then, triggers between one another. This has helped us handle conflicts and moved us towards encouraging/nurturing our love for one another. We are grateful to Dr. Jessica’s work with us and happily still living within these ripple effects as our marriage continues to grow and deepen.”
K.C.
K.C.
Michael and Beverly
“Working with Dr. Higgins was the the best investment we have ever made for our family. In addition...
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M & B
“Working with Dr. Higgins was the the best investment we have ever made for our family. In addition to husband and wife we are also business partners. Dr. Higgins helped up level our relationship and shift dynamics that were unconsciously created. Working directly with Dr. Higgins gave us the skills that have grown us into elite teammates both personally and professionally."
Michael and Beverly
M & B
C.M.
"Dr. Jessica Higgins’ empathetic approach, deep understanding, and expertise created a safe space for me to open...
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C.M.
"Dr. Jessica Higgins’ empathetic approach, deep understanding, and expertise created a safe space for me to open up and address my challenges. She provided valuable insights, practical strategies, and genuine support that fostered personal growth and self-awareness. I wholeheartedly recommend Dr. Higgins to anyone seeking professional help. Thank you, Dr. Higgins:) "
C.M.
C.M.
F & M
“Quite simply, Jessica saved our marriage. My wife and I had gone from being a couple that had...
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F & M
“Quite simply, Jessica saved our marriage. My wife and I had gone from being a couple that had a seemingly rock solid and enviable relationship to the brink of divorce. My wife stumbled upon Jessica’s podcast and we decided to start working with her as a last-ditch attempt to save our relationship after failing with a previous attempt at couples therapy. Jessica was able to build trust with both of us and to uncover the underlying causes of our relationship issues within a few sessions. Over the next few months, she was able to work with us to expose our recurring patterns and coach us on modifying our behaviors to allow us to reclaim our marriage. Much of the work was painful but Jessica helped us to uncover deep wounds and deal with them openly and honestly. She taught us new ways of communicating and helped us remember why we love each other. Our relationship now feels strong and authentic. Even months after ending our sessions with Jessica, the stress that once permeated our household has disappeared and we both feel secure and comfortable with our bond. We cannot recommend Jessica more highly. She is extremely empathetic, caring, and has a way of understanding each person’s point of view without taking sides. We once thought our relationship was doomed. Thanks to Jessica’s help and guidance, we feel like we have resurrected our marriage and saved our family.”
F & M
F & M
A.B.
“I can't say enough about Dr. Jessica Higgins’ relationship guidance and advice. Her support...
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A.B.
“I can't say enough about Dr. Jessica Higgins’ relationship guidance and advice. Her support has been instrumental and has helped transformed how I show up in my relationship. My relationship is stronger now, and I am not sure we would have had the same outcome without the knowledge and insight Dr. Jessica Higgins. I feel more empowered in myself and my relationship because of her help. Thank you!.”
A.B.
A.B.
E.E.
“My relationship has completely changed through working with Jessica. She was equally attentive and took the time to hear...
Read More
E.E.
“My relationship has completely changed through working with Jessica. She was equally attentive and took the time to hear both myself and my partners history and point of view. After thoroughly getting to know us she was able to get down to the core of our actual needs and desires and gave us the tools to do this outside of our sessions as well to create a safe and understanding dynamic. I’m so grateful for Jessica’s patience and guidance.”
E.E.
E.E.
Jane and Jeff
“We have been working with Dr. Jessica Higgins for nearly six years, and cannot recommend her more highly...
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J & J
“We have been working with Dr. Jessica Higgins for nearly six years, and cannot recommend her more highly. Jessica has helped us to gain a new “language” for our marriage, and has helped us to see ourselves more clearly, along with how our individual patterns and upbringing inform our relationship with one another. Jessica has served as a guide in navigating a new frontier for our relationship. The first five years of our marriage have brought with them a tremendous amount of change in our respective lives, and Jessica has helped us to navigate these seasons of change with a solid foundation, clarity, and love.”
Jane and Jeff
J & J
K.B.
“I can’t say enough about Dr. Jessica Higgins’ relationship guidance and advice. Her support has been instrumental and...
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K.B.
“I can’t say enough about Dr. Jessica Higgins’ relationship guidance and advice. Her support has been instrumental and has helped transformed how I show up in my relationship. My relationship is stronger now, and I am not sure we would have had the same outcome without her knowledge and insight. I feel more empowered in myself and my relationship because of her help. Thank you!”
K.B.
K.B.
M.H.
"I couldn't speak more highly of Jessica. It seems a main factor in the healthy development of ...
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M.H.
"I couldn't speak more highly of Jessica. It seems a main factor in the healthy development of our emotional being is the availability of a safe space through which we can be open and vulnerable to actually do the necessary work to effect positive change in our lives. It is difficult enough to offer this space to ourselves, let alone share it with another person. Jessica manages to assist in the development of both. Through her warm, confident and compassionate presence Jessica creates this ideal space while her wisdom and skill assists in the development of a personal internal space of openness and non judgment where it is okay to be vulnerable, to be oneself. Simply, Jessica has helped me to honor my highest self in all that I do. And most importantly, in all that I create in this life."
M.H.
M.H.
S.L.
"I have worked with Jessica on and off for over a decade during different periods of...
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S.L.
"I have worked with Jessica on and off for over a decade during different periods of my life when I needed support for anxiety.   Most recently, Jessica helped me process my grief surrounding the death of a loved one.  Through the work we did, I was able to work through the grief and loss.  Therapy helped me feel grounded, at peace, and to see joy in life, even with the inevitable uncertainties and loss that we all will experience.  Thank you, Jessica, for being such a support to me over the years!"
S.L.
S.L.
C.H.
"I came to Dr. Higgins roughly 6 months before my wedding as I needed support on familial circumstances and...
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C.H.
"I came to Dr. Higgins roughly 6 months before my wedding as I needed support on familial circumstances and my relationship with my fiancé. I signed up for a 1-1 coaching sessions package after finding her podcast, Empowered Relationships. I’m across the country, so our sessions were virtual. My favorite part about working with Dr. Higgins was her empathetic nature, she listens carefully, non-judgmentally, and can truly relate and understand my circumstances to the point where I felt fully safe and comfortable in conversation. This led to more vulnerability which I believe led to more healing for me personally throughout our sessions. She has an incredible perspective and can completely change the way you look at something by posing insightful questions and scenarios that I’d never before considered. It helped me to understand the patterns in my own behavior and the “why” behind them. This helped me to let go of some burdens I was carrying and learn to explain myself more effectively to my fiancé when conflict arises. Dr. Higgins also added value beyond sessions by recommending research-based reading materials, videos, and other resources from her website and podcast, all of which I devoured and helped me between coaching sessions to continue on my healing path. I appreciate the opportunity to look at things differently, understand myself better, and the ways she showed me how to relate and converse better with my family and fiancé even months after therapy as I’m writing this. I’ve gained more confidence in myself through working with Dr. Higgins. She truly has a great heart and extends that openly to others through her work.”
C.H.
C.H.
J & J
“We have been working with Dr. Jessica Higgins for nearly six years, and cannot recommend her more highly...
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J & J
“We have been working with Dr. Jessica Higgins for nearly six years, and cannot recommend her more highly. Jessica has helped us to gain a new “language” for our marriage, and has helped us to see ourselves more clearly, along with how our individual patterns and upbringing inform our relationship with one another. Jessica has served as a guide in navigating a new frontier for our relationship. The first five years of our marriage have brought with them a tremendous amount of change in our respective lives, and Jessica has helped us to navigate these seasons of change with a solid foundation, clarity, and love.”
J & J
J & J
Elizabeth
“Working with Dr. Higgins was the the best investment we have ever made for our family. In addition...
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E
“Working with Dr. Higgins was the the best investment we have ever made for our family. In addition to husband and wife we are also business partners. Dr. Higgins helped up level our relationship and shift dynamics that were unconsciously created. Working directly with Dr. Higgins gave us the skills that have grown us into elite teammates both personally and professionally."
Elizabeth
E
DM
"Working with Dr Jessica Higgins was such a valuable experience for my partner and I. We were ...
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DM
"Working with Dr Jessica Higgins was such a valuable experience for my partner and I. We were at a crossroads in our relationship and had difficulty "seeing" each other's pain when having conflict. Dr Jesscia was able to help soften both of us quite quickly so we could turn toward each other with compassion and new insights about how the other's defenses were just a reaction from learned behaviors to protect from further hurt. We both learned that we wanted the same thing... heartfelt connection and more ease with each other. Although we needed to create more space between us due to certain life circumstances, we still are in relationship with each other and now have much more peace between us by actively using helpful tools we learned from Dr Jessica in our communication. I have learned so much about myself and feel confident that I can face hard conversations without wanting to just give up by regulating my own emotions and staying present and calmly stating my needs and wants. Truly life changing!"
DM
DM
S.C.
“Jessica and her work with us has been instrumental in creating a powerful connection in our marriage. We have...
Read More
S.C.
“Jessica and her work with us has been instrumental in creating a powerful connection in our marriage. We have been working with her for nearly five years, and she continues to partner with us to create an even stronger bond. For me, her caring and compassionate heart mixed with gentle nudging has prompted me to open myself to my husband in a very emotionally safe manner. Her work has helped my husband find his way toward compassion and away from defensiveness. I would highly recommend her for any coaching needs, individual or as a couple. She will understand you, validate you, and challenge you in the most caring way. ”
S.C.
S.C.
BP
"My husband and I started seeing Dr. Jessica after the birth of our second child, when it was...
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BP
"My husband and I started seeing Dr. Jessica after the birth of our second child, when it was clear that finding time and space to connect and communicate may be more difficult. Together we have found common language for our conflict cycles, and Dr. Jessica has given us the gift of understanding each other’s deeply rooted patterns and motivations. We have recommended her to dozens of friends and colleagues—any couple would be sure to benefit greatly from time spent with Dr. Jessica!"
BP
BP
M & B
“Working with Dr. Higgins was the the best investment we have ever made for our family. In addition...
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M & B
“Working with Dr. Higgins was the the best investment we have ever made for our family. In addition to husband and wife we are also business partners. Dr. Higgins helped up level our relationship and shift dynamics that were unconsciously created. Working directly with Dr. Higgins gave us the skills that have grown us into elite teammates both personally and professionally.”
M & B
M & B
JA

I love working with Dr. Jessica Higgins. I feel that she truly cares about her work and helping her ...

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JA

I love working with Dr. Jessica Higgins. I feel that she truly cares about her work and helping her clients. I have experience with other therapists and psychologists, but have not had the same supportive and life-changing experience as with Dr. Higgins. I do feel that she understands and is able to guide her clients well.

In a world of social media and so many opinions, I found it difficult to find clarity. Dr. Higgins is very knowledgeable and knows how to tailor the coaching to fit the client; therefore, with her guidance, I was able to connect with myself and find clarity from a place that felt right for me.

I now feel more connected to myself and in my relationship. Through coaching, I was also able to identify tools that could help mitigate and navigate challenges in my relationship. I implemented these, and they have changed my relationship. I am very grateful for her guidance and knowledge. I would definitely recommend Dr. Higgins to anyone seeking a deeper connection with themselves and in their relationship.

JA
JA
E.S.
“My relationship has completely changed through working with Jessica. She was equally attentive and took...
Read More
E.S.
“My relationship has completely changed through working with Jessica. She was equally attentive and took the time to hear both myself and my partners history and point of view. After thoroughly getting to know us she was able to get down to the core of our actual needs and desires and gave us the tools to do this outside of our sessions as well to create a safe and understanding dynamic. I’m so grateful for Jessica’s patience and guidance.”
E.S.
E.S.
Michael and Beverly
“Working with Dr. Higgins was the the best investment we have ever made for our family. In addition...
Read More
M & B
“Working with Dr. Higgins was the the best investment we have ever made for our family. In addition to husband and wife we are also business partners. Dr. Higgins helped up level our relationship and shift dynamics that were unconsciously created. Working directly with Dr. Higgins gave us the skills that have grown us into elite teammates both personally and professionally."
Michael and Beverly
M & B
Frances
“Working with Dr. Higgins was the the best investment we have ever made for our family. In addition...
Read More
F
“Working with Dr. Higgins was the the best investment we have ever made for our family. In addition to husband and wife we are also business partners. Dr. Higgins helped up level our relationship and shift dynamics that were unconsciously created. Working directly with Dr. Higgins gave us the skills that have grown us into elite teammates both personally and professionally."
Frances
F
B.L.
"I'm so grateful to have met and worked with Jessica. She is an excellent coach. I found her to be ...
Read More
B.L.
"I'm so grateful to have met and worked with Jessica. She is an excellent coach. I found her to be one of the most warm, empathetic, and knowledgeable people of all the coaches and psychotherapists I've worked with over the years. Jessica holds space, listens deeply, and is extremely compassionate. Simultaneously, she provided me with the tools and encouragement I needed to stretch and grow in ways that had a very positive impact on my life. Anyone would be fortunate to work with Jessica!"
B.L.
B.L.
JA

I love working with Dr. Jessica Higgins. I feel that she truly cares about her work and helping her ...

Read More
JA

I love working with Dr. Jessica Higgins. I feel that she truly cares about her work and helping her clients. I have experience with other therapists and psychologists, but have not had the same supportive and life-changing experience as with Dr. Higgins. I do feel that she understands and is able to guide her clients well.

In a world of social media and so many opinions, I found it difficult to find clarity. Dr. Higgins is very knowledgeable and knows how to tailor the coaching to fit the client; therefore, with her guidance, I was able to connect with myself and find clarity from a place that felt right for me.

I now feel more connected to myself and in my relationship. Through coaching, I was also able to identify tools that could help mitigate and navigate challenges in my relationship. I implemented these, and they have changed my relationship. I am very grateful for her guidance and knowledge. I would definitely recommend Dr. Higgins to anyone seeking a deeper connection with themselves and in their relationship.

JA
JA
S.L.
"I have worked with Jessica on and off for over a decade during different periods of...
Read More
S.L.
"I have worked with Jessica on and off for over a decade during different periods of my life when I needed support for anxiety.   Most recently, Jessica helped me process my grief surrounding the death of a loved one.  Through the work we did, I was able to work through the grief and loss.  Therapy helped me feel grounded, at peace, and to see joy in life, even with the inevitable uncertainties and loss that we all will experience.  Thank you, Jessica, for being such a support to me over the years!"
S.L.
S.L.
C.M.
"Dr. Jessica Higgins’ empathetic approach, deep understanding, and expertise created a safe space for me to open...
Read More
C.M.
"Dr. Jessica Higgins’ empathetic approach, deep understanding, and expertise created a safe space for me to open up and address my challenges. She provided valuable insights, practical strategies, and genuine support that fostered personal growth and self-awareness. I wholeheartedly recommend Dr. Higgins to anyone seeking professional help. Thank you, Dr. Higgins:) "
C.M.
C.M.
K.B.
“I can’t say enough about Dr. Jessica Higgins’ relationship guidance and advice. Her support has been instrumental and...
Read More
K.B.
“I can’t say enough about Dr. Jessica Higgins’ relationship guidance and advice. Her support has been instrumental and has helped transformed how I show up in my relationship. My relationship is stronger now, and I am not sure we would have had the same outcome without her knowledge and insight. I feel more empowered in myself and my relationship because of her help. Thank you!”
K.B.
K.B.
DM
"Working with Dr Jessica Higgins was such a valuable experience for my partner and I. We were ...
Read More
DM
"Working with Dr Jessica Higgins was such a valuable experience for my partner and I. We were at a crossroads in our relationship and had difficulty "seeing" each other's pain when having conflict. Dr Jesscia was able to help soften both of us quite quickly so we could turn toward each other with compassion and new insights about how the other's defenses were just a reaction from learned behaviors to protect from further hurt. We both learned that we wanted the same thing... heartfelt connection and more ease with each other. Although we needed to create more space between us due to certain life circumstances, we still are in relationship with each other and now have much more peace between us by actively using helpful tools we learned from Dr Jessica in our communication. I have learned so much about myself and feel confident that I can face hard conversations without wanting to just give up by regulating my own emotions and staying present and calmly stating my needs and wants. Truly life changing!"
DM
DM
K.C.
“The Dalai Lama said, “Just as ripples spread out when a single pebble is dropped into water, the...
Read More
K.C.
“The Dalai Lama said, “Just as ripples spread out when a single pebble is dropped into water, the actions of individuals can have far-reaching effects.” Dr. Jessica Higgins has been that proverbial pebble for my husband and me in our relationship. She enabled a healing process where not only were tools given to reopen lines of communication but inroads were made towards understanding one another. Once the huge obstacles were hurdled relationally, she gave us a framework for first, taking personal responsibility by recognizing triggers within ourselves then, triggers between one another. This has helped us handle conflicts and moved us towards encouraging/nurturing our love for one another. We are grateful to Dr. Jessica’s work with us and happily still living within these ripple effects as our marriage continues to grow and deepen.”
K.C.
K.C.
Jane and Jeff
“We have been working with Dr. Jessica Higgins for nearly six years, and cannot recommend her more highly...
Read More
J & J
“We have been working with Dr. Jessica Higgins for nearly six years, and cannot recommend her more highly. Jessica has helped us to gain a new “language” for our marriage, and has helped us to see ourselves more clearly, along with how our individual patterns and upbringing inform our relationship with one another. Jessica has served as a guide in navigating a new frontier for our relationship. The first five years of our marriage have brought with them a tremendous amount of change in our respective lives, and Jessica has helped us to navigate these seasons of change with a solid foundation, clarity, and love.”
Jane and Jeff
J & J
M & B
“Working with Dr. Higgins was the the best investment we have ever made for our family. In addition...
Read More
M & B
“Working with Dr. Higgins was the the best investment we have ever made for our family. In addition to husband and wife we are also business partners. Dr. Higgins helped up level our relationship and shift dynamics that were unconsciously created. Working directly with Dr. Higgins gave us the skills that have grown us into elite teammates both personally and professionally.”
M & B
M & B
E.E.
“My relationship has completely changed through working with Jessica. She was equally attentive and took the time to hear...
Read More
E.E.
“My relationship has completely changed through working with Jessica. She was equally attentive and took the time to hear both myself and my partners history and point of view. After thoroughly getting to know us she was able to get down to the core of our actual needs and desires and gave us the tools to do this outside of our sessions as well to create a safe and understanding dynamic. I’m so grateful for Jessica’s patience and guidance.”
E.E.
E.E.
S.C.
“Jessica and her work with us has been instrumental in creating a powerful connection in our marriage. We have...
Read More
S.C.
“Jessica and her work with us has been instrumental in creating a powerful connection in our marriage. We have been working with her for nearly five years, and she continues to partner with us to create an even stronger bond. For me, her caring and compassionate heart mixed with gentle nudging has prompted me to open myself to my husband in a very emotionally safe manner. Her work has helped my husband find his way toward compassion and away from defensiveness. I would highly recommend her for any coaching needs, individual or as a couple. She will understand you, validate you, and challenge you in the most caring way. ”
S.C.
S.C.
A.B.
“I can't say enough about Dr. Jessica Higgins’ relationship guidance and advice. Her support...
Read More
A.B.
“I can't say enough about Dr. Jessica Higgins’ relationship guidance and advice. Her support has been instrumental and has helped transformed how I show up in my relationship. My relationship is stronger now, and I am not sure we would have had the same outcome without the knowledge and insight Dr. Jessica Higgins. I feel more empowered in myself and my relationship because of her help. Thank you!.”
A.B.
A.B.
Elizabeth
“Working with Dr. Higgins was the the best investment we have ever made for our family. In addition...
Read More
E
“Working with Dr. Higgins was the the best investment we have ever made for our family. In addition to husband and wife we are also business partners. Dr. Higgins helped up level our relationship and shift dynamics that were unconsciously created. Working directly with Dr. Higgins gave us the skills that have grown us into elite teammates both personally and professionally."
Elizabeth
E
BP
"My husband and I started seeing Dr. Jessica after the birth of our second child, when it was...
Read More
BP
"My husband and I started seeing Dr. Jessica after the birth of our second child, when it was clear that finding time and space to connect and communicate may be more difficult. Together we have found common language for our conflict cycles, and Dr. Jessica has given us the gift of understanding each other’s deeply rooted patterns and motivations. We have recommended her to dozens of friends and colleagues—any couple would be sure to benefit greatly from time spent with Dr. Jessica!"
BP
BP
M.H.
"I couldn't speak more highly of Jessica. It seems a main factor in the healthy development of ...
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M.H.
"I couldn't speak more highly of Jessica. It seems a main factor in the healthy development of our emotional being is the availability of a safe space through which we can be open and vulnerable to actually do the necessary work to effect positive change in our lives. It is difficult enough to offer this space to ourselves, let alone share it with another person. Jessica manages to assist in the development of both. Through her warm, confident and compassionate presence Jessica creates this ideal space while her wisdom and skill assists in the development of a personal internal space of openness and non judgment where it is okay to be vulnerable, to be oneself. Simply, Jessica has helped me to honor my highest self in all that I do. And most importantly, in all that I create in this life."
M.H.
M.H.
J & J
“We have been working with Dr. Jessica Higgins for nearly six years, and cannot recommend her more highly...
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J & J
“We have been working with Dr. Jessica Higgins for nearly six years, and cannot recommend her more highly. Jessica has helped us to gain a new “language” for our marriage, and has helped us to see ourselves more clearly, along with how our individual patterns and upbringing inform our relationship with one another. Jessica has served as a guide in navigating a new frontier for our relationship. The first five years of our marriage have brought with them a tremendous amount of change in our respective lives, and Jessica has helped us to navigate these seasons of change with a solid foundation, clarity, and love.”
J & J
J & J
C.H.
"I came to Dr. Higgins roughly 6 months before my wedding as I needed support on familial circumstances and...
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C.H.
"I came to Dr. Higgins roughly 6 months before my wedding as I needed support on familial circumstances and my relationship with my fiancé. I signed up for a 1-1 coaching sessions package after finding her podcast, Empowered Relationships. I’m across the country, so our sessions were virtual. My favorite part about working with Dr. Higgins was her empathetic nature, she listens carefully, non-judgmentally, and can truly relate and understand my circumstances to the point where I felt fully safe and comfortable in conversation. This led to more vulnerability which I believe led to more healing for me personally throughout our sessions. She has an incredible perspective and can completely change the way you look at something by posing insightful questions and scenarios that I’d never before considered. It helped me to understand the patterns in my own behavior and the “why” behind them. This helped me to let go of some burdens I was carrying and learn to explain myself more effectively to my fiancé when conflict arises. Dr. Higgins also added value beyond sessions by recommending research-based reading materials, videos, and other resources from her website and podcast, all of which I devoured and helped me between coaching sessions to continue on my healing path. I appreciate the opportunity to look at things differently, understand myself better, and the ways she showed me how to relate and converse better with my family and fiancé even months after therapy as I’m writing this. I’ve gained more confidence in myself through working with Dr. Higgins. She truly has a great heart and extends that openly to others through her work.”
C.H.
C.H.
L.W.
"I began sessions with Dr Jessica Higgins shortly after a fairly traumatic and unexpected breakup of a 38 ...
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L.W.
"I began sessions with Dr Jessica Higgins shortly after a fairly traumatic and unexpected breakup of a 38 year marriage. She was wonderfully compassionate, assisting me as I unraveled what had happened, and worked out how to move forward in a positive and practical way. She was instrumental in my healing process. She has a lot of relationship knowledge and brought this expertise to my sessions. I would highly recommend her as not only an insightful therapist, but also as a truly genuine person."
L.W.
L.W.
F & M
“Quite simply, Jessica saved our marriage. My wife and I had gone from being a couple that had...
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F & M
“Quite simply, Jessica saved our marriage. My wife and I had gone from being a couple that had a seemingly rock solid and enviable relationship to the brink of divorce. My wife stumbled upon Jessica’s podcast and we decided to start working with her as a last-ditch attempt to save our relationship after failing with a previous attempt at couples therapy. Jessica was able to build trust with both of us and to uncover the underlying causes of our relationship issues within a few sessions. Over the next few months, she was able to work with us to expose our recurring patterns and coach us on modifying our behaviors to allow us to reclaim our marriage. Much of the work was painful but Jessica helped us to uncover deep wounds and deal with them openly and honestly. She taught us new ways of communicating and helped us remember why we love each other. Our relationship now feels strong and authentic. Even months after ending our sessions with Jessica, the stress that once permeated our household has disappeared and we both feel secure and comfortable with our bond. We cannot recommend Jessica more highly. She is extremely empathetic, caring, and has a way of understanding each person’s point of view without taking sides. We once thought our relationship was doomed. Thanks to Jessica’s help and guidance, we feel like we have resurrected our marriage and saved our family.”
F & M
F & M

ABOUT Dr. JESSICA HIGGINS

When people engage in working with me, they are ready to address the ways in which they participate in perpetuating challenges.

They want to access the origins of their challenges and difficulties, so that they get out of the painful, repetitive loop and learn new ways of operating to be a “better version” of themselves and co-create love and connection with their significant other.

With over 25+ years of experience working with people therapeutically, a Ph.D. in Clinical Psychology and a M.A. in Counseling Psychology, two coaching certifications, and decades of experience, I do my best to offer clients a comprehensive blend of psychology and coaching.

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